Everyone is "Born to distribute Love"
Do you know ?
You are a great lover ever since birth !
Its a holy or damn truth.Its only your way you conceive.A newly born baby has inborn power to sense love.It recognizes its mother by her body smell.It cries when away from her mom. This is true for all animals.Even flowers of same species blooms in a common season so that they can carry on the life cycle and hence perpetuate its generation.
After a child reaches the age of first walking-talking,it interacts with more peoples and children of his own age group.He gradually becomes away from the so called stick love with parents.Becomes busy in playing and even don't care to have food on time.He doesn't ignores the love of his parents .He just find his love in playing with friends.He just distributes his concentrated love to his friends.But after play he again enjoys the company of his parents.Time makes him away from home for higher studies to high school,colleges or universities.He now spends more time with class or college mates.Enjoy with them.He now share most of his feelings with his friends rather than with parents.You can not say that the child starts neglecting his parents.He now sees parents as a couple.He understands the relations .He sees the male -female combination rule of nature.This may also be considered as the effect of hormones.He want to have a girl friend(similarly girl want to have a boy friend).This is not a bad thing.This may not be true for all boys or girls.But I swear there is always a sweet corner for someone special in everybody heart.He needs love,he want to practise love,understand emotions.....how one feel when in love.At the brim of teen-age;isolation from parents increases upto such a limit that a guy/girl may be depressed if he is not having the company of good friends with which he can enjoy life or share emotions.Company of good friends can overcome the willingness to have someone special of opposite sex.
I am not saying that love and respect for parents decreases with time .......but I want to say that the diffusion of concentrated love gradually increases and then again concentrates when married as he/she become the parent of sweet kids ......:P :P
Love you parents !!!
I do find love on reading this...
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