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Thursday, 20 September 2012

Teachers @ school/college days and university days

Mentality of students towards teachers in the school days & in college/university days 

What is a teacher? Literally anyone who teaches us is a teacher. Our parents are the first teachers, academic teachers and society come afterwards. Sometimes we ourselves serve as the core for inspiration and self-judgement. We learn from our mistakes. In these all situations, self-conscience teaches us. Thus we are also our teacher.

Talking strictly to academic teaching; the perception of students towards their teachers in the succeeding ladders of the academic carrier remains more or less same. There is no huge difference between the perception of students towards teachers in school days and in university/college days. In school days, everyone is taught about the moral values, curtsies and punctuality. But still a difference in the mentality and behavior is common among students. We all are taught to respect our parents, teachers and elders. We are not mature enough to decide our right or wrong. We simply follow whatever said. There are also some other factors which generate respect towards teachers; they are in fear of being bitten, love and parental behavior of teachers. But it is to be noted that even in the school days not all the teachers get love and affection from the student side. Every student has some favorite or ideal teachers which he /she decides based on their own set criteria (eg : caring, marks giver).With gradual advancement in classes and ages; the behavior of students also changes. It may attribute to hormonal changes. One thing to be noticed is that the girl mentality/behavior towards teachers remains more or less invariable with time. They don't use abusive words for them. It may be due to the society effect. Our society is male oriented and females are considered to be quite and gentle creatures. I know sometimes the situation becomes upside down. There comes a stage in the school days when students start judging their teachers by the way they teaches and behaves. The student starts nomenclature of the teachers based on their attitudes and attributes. They make fun of their teachers, throw chalk pieces on them, cartoon them and many other funny acts. Only a few teachers remain untouched or soft-touched by these disrespectful acts of students. They are often called as ideal teacher. At school days; framing the features which make a teacher ideal is a daunting task. For some students; teacher who gives more marks and behave friendly is ideal. For others; teacher who teaches well and is strict is ideal. It too depends on the mentality and behavior of students. At the junction of school/college and university days there comes a stage at which student starts making their own decision. They start discussing their problems with their friends. Their communication with parents and teachers also becomes seldom. Now they only consult them for their important decisions only. This may also be attributed to hormonal changes and developmental process or so called social impact. Finally, they enter into the process of advanced maturation.
Then comes; the university life of a student. Armoured with developing maturity, judgement capacity and emotions; the students perceive teachers somewhat differently. But the difference is not acute because it's just like school days where only some of the students behave differently. The maturity enables students to judge their teachers based on different criteria. There are some extreme cases also in which a student fell in love with his/her teacher or vice-versa and marries him/her. Some guys perceive their teachers as handsome or beautiful looking persons. They are impressed by their teachers (professors) personality. Some students respect their teacher (few of the teachers) like their parents; obviously those are the most caring ones.

 Based on a short survey, I concluded the following facts. There are 3 types opinion from the student side:-
    1)   There is no difference between the teachers in the school and university.
They are the one who is adjustable with the situations. They have faith in themselves. Even if some teachers do not teach well or bunks the class they read the subject them self. They believe that aging is the cause of lowering of activeness of professors and they don’t blame them for their inactive involvement of professors in class. They appreciate their teachers. They are the one who is a source of encouragement for good teachers. They are also responsible for creating an irresponsible stream of teachers. Some professors who take teaching as time pass and boring work are encouraged by them and they continue their negligence towards teaching. These professors and students are responsible for creating other two categories of opinion.

  2)  Teachers in the school days are comparatively better than university professors. They are the one who came to this conclusion after seeing the irresponsible behavior of some teachers. Some professors are not well versed with the subject matter, they are teaching. The matured brain of the students does not take it easy. Some teachers come to class speak few words, upload the (copy paste made) slides and the class is over. This weakens the faith of students in teacher. These students do the same thing as in school days; i.e. the nomenclature of teachers. But this time they also consider the specific style of teachers while naming. They sometimes disrespect teachers and use abusive language for their teachers at their back and even in front.
   
     3)    Teachers in university are less capable to handle students and they do not fulfil the required standards of teaching. This group includes mostly those students who are relax-minded and don’t take the study seriously. It is astonishing to note that some of the genius students also fall in this category. In case of genius (not a book worm parrot) students; they do not blame professors rather they blame the system for recruiting such teachers. They are not satisfied with the system. They love bunking classes and are crazy about the teachers who are also good atbunking.


Let me brief: - There is a little difference between teachers in school and in university. It is the maturity level of the student which matters. At school level also, we students have some favorite teachers with whom we interact freely. Same is the condition at the university level. Every workplace has some loopholes, but still the system runs. It depends how the people affected by these loop holes react. This can be compared to our political system. If students want a change they can. But one thing is clear; good teachers always hold the crown of respect from students. They are always welcomed and loved by both genius & idiot students. It is because the conditions for being a good teacher undergo a little change during the shift from school to university life.Students want their teachers to be (preference wise):-
Good at teaching
Friendly
Caring/one who can understand them

Indeed, I took greater care not to disrespect the TEACHING COMMUNITY but I may have failed somewhere while explaining the truth. I am extremely sorry, if it hurts someone.


Monday, 3 September 2012

The most beautiful lines I ever wrote 
"beauty lies in the equation of nature and nature lies within you & around you" ,so just behave naturally.
:-C.K.Gautam